[I assure you] by the pride which I have in you in [yourfellowship and union with] Christ Jesus our Lord, that I die daily [I face death every day and die to self.] –1 Corinthians 15:31
Selfishness is not learned behavior– we are born with it. But when we accept Jesus as our savior, He comes to live in our spirit, and as we learn how to “die to self” and follow the leading of the Holy Spirit, then we can overcome selfishness. I may never go away completely, but the Greater One who lives in us helps us overcome it daily (see Galatians 5:16)
Now, I haven’t overcome selfishness entirely, and I doubt anyone else has either. Even the apostle Paul, one of the greatest Christians who ever lived, had trouble overcoming selfishness. Learning to live unselfishly was a journey for him, just like everybody else. He said he had to “die to self” every single day.
We are called to the same life because we cannot live selfish lives and expect to make a difference. We must die to self every single day. It usually isn’t ‘easy to do, but God will always give us His grace to do what’s right when leaning on Him. And the truth is, living an unselfish life is the best way to have more righteousness, peace, and joy every day!
From the book “Promises for your everyday life”