Bless those who persecute you [who are cruel in their attitude toward you]; bless and do not curse them. –Romans 12:14.
When dealing with past hurts, we all know that it’s right to forgive, even when it’s difficult. However, few of us rarely take the next step that God wants us to take.
A common misconception is that ll we have to do is make the decision to forgive and our job is finished, but Jesus also said, Invoke blessings upon and pray for the happiness of those who curse you, implore God’s blessing upon those who abuse you [who revile, reproach, disparage, and high-handedly misuse you]. In addition, Romans 12:14 says that we are to bless those who persecute us and treat us cruelly.
We are to actively bless our enemies. God calls us to extend mercy to people who do not deserve it. Why?
When you forgive, it opens a door for God to heal you, but honestly, it doesn’t do much for the person who offended you. But when you bless them, you ask God to bring truths to them so they can repent and experience the real freedom He provides. Forgiveness sets you free.. blessing your enemies sets them free.
From the book “Promises for our everyday life”